Choosing your baby’s name is one of the most beautiful (and surprisingly challenging) parts of pregnancy. It’s more than just a label. it is the beginning of your child’s identity, a word you’ll say a thousand times, and something they’ll carry for life.
If you’re feeling the pressure, you’re not alone. At Belovia, we believe in making big decisions feel joyful, not overwhelming. Here’s how to find a name that feels just right.
1. Visualize Their Story
Close your eyes and imagine your baby growing up. How does the name sound when you call them at the playground? Does it fit on a birthday card, a school form, a business card someday?
Try this: Picture their first day at school – Is the name easy to pronounce and spell? Think of their future – Does it feel strong and timeless? Say it out loud – Can you see yourself using it every day?
Belovia Tip: Once you’ve chosen (or narrowed it down), start talking to your belly using the name. “Luca, we’re going for a walk”, “Noor, do you hear that song?” This small habit builds a powerful emotional connection before your baby is even born.
2. Start with meaning
Names with a personal or cultural connection often feel the most special. Ask yourself:
Are there family names or traditions you want to honor? Do you want to reflect your heritage or language? Are you drawn to certain themes — nature, literature, history, spirituality? A meaningful name grows with your child and carries a story.
3.Sound, flow & feel
Say the full name out loud. Does it flow smoothly with the last name?Does it pair well with siblings’ names? Does it sound natural in your daily language(s)? Also, think about nicknames — do you like the obvious short forms?
4. Spelling, pronunciation & the Starbucks test
A unique spelling can be charming — but can also lead to a lifetime of correcting others. If you’re unsure, test it: give the name at a coffee shop and see how it’s written or pronounced. If it’s consistently misunderstood, that’s worth noting.
5. International names: A smart move for expats
If you’re raising a child abroad or in a multilingual family, choosing a name that travels well is key. Look for names that are:
- Easy to pronounce in multiple languages
- Spelled similarly across cultures
- Free of unfortunate meanings in other tongues
Names like Leo, Ava, Nora, Elias, Sofia, Noah are great examples — elegant, universal, and full of warmth. Choosing a globally-friendly name is a subtle but powerful way to help your child feel comfortable wherever life takes them.
6.Trendy vs. Timeless
It’s tempting to follow trends, but ask yourself: will this name still feel right in 20 years? A name inspired by today’s pop culture might not age as gracefully as something classic or grounded in meaning.
7. Ask around (but trust yourself)
Sure, you can get feedback from family or friends — but in the end, you are the one who will say this name hundreds of times a day. If it feels right in your heart, it probably is.
8.Give it time
And finally… don’t rush it. Sometimes the perfect name doesn’t come until later in pregnancy — or even after birth. Let it come to you naturally. This is part of the magic.
What About You? Have you already found the name? Do you have a list, or are you still searching?
Share your favorite names, your naming journey, or your struggles in the comments — your story might inspire someone else.